Thanks for being part of my team. Hello, my little tufts of hair, welcome to a new video. My name is Isa, and today I want to share with you some psychological strategies or mental tricks that will help you approach a woman and, even better, make her like you. So pay close attention, stay until the end of the video, and let’s begin. Would you like to learn how to conquer a woman’s mind before her heart? True seduction, loves, is not in what you have; true seduction is in how you make her feel. That is why, with these little tricks, I am going to reveal how you can capture her attention and attraction. So let’s get to them.
2. Emotional Ambiguity
Number one: create emotional ambiguity. Women feel much more attracted to what we cannot decipher immediately. That thing about a man wanting to arrive like an open book or as someone totally transparent, dropping his whole story in the first minute of meeting us—that does not generate any kind of attraction. It is fine to be kind, but always leave those small gaps that she will want to finish filling, meaning she thinks, “I’m missing information here.” What this provokes is that she ignites her curiosity, and I don’t know if you knew this, but curiosity is the first step to desire.
3. Micro-Doses of Dopamine
Number two: provoke micro-doses of dopamine. Basically, this means alternating intense moments of attention with brief absences. Respond with energy—yes, that will always help—but then go do your things and disappear for a little while. That bye will always make her want to have more of you and never end up feeling satiated or even bored of your conversations. These small spikes of dopamine are what create an addiction and make her see you as much more attractive.
4. Prolonged Eye Contact
Number three: use prolonged eye contact. Look at her fixedly for a few seconds longer than normal. I’ve always told you that this is totally proven and that looks generate a lot of attraction and at the same time connection, but never try to look like a weird maniac—one of those who stares with a super penetrating look, no. What’s interesting here is that you look at her more intensely and then subtly turn away with a smile. This gesture will transmit a lot of confidence on your part, but it will also create sexual tension with her. I know it sounds like a pretty basic trick, but it’s super powerful.
5. Intelligent Mirroring Technique
Number four: apply the intelligent mirroring technique. When you are talking, slightly mirror her body language. I’ve shared this with you in previous videos, and it really is very effective. When we play at being a kind of mirror with that person and start making movements or gestures that she is making—obviously all of this in a subtle way, don’t go making it obvious that you’re imitating her because then it wouldn’t be nice or work, in fact she would notice—the goal is that when she makes some kind of gesture, a movement, a few seconds later you do it too. But once again, it has to be subtle. Let’s imagine that suddenly she grabs her hair or scratches her head and so on; you are going to observe all those movements and a few seconds later imitate them subtly. You’ll turn away and do the exact same thing, but without making it look identical. This will create an emotional connection she won’t even notice. There are many examples, but scratching the head is one way. If she crosses her arms, for example, a short time later do the same as if you were changing your position, cross them too, and so on. Always pay attention to those expressions, and unconsciously she will do it too, and that will make her connect with you.
6. Emotional Unpredictability
Number five: be emotionally unpredictable. Watch out, I mean this in a healthy way. Don’t go getting toxic because then the trick stops working. What do I mean by this? One day you can flatter her naturally and the next be a bit more distant, but that’s why I tell you to do it in a healthy way. It’s not about giving all your attention at once and the next day acting like you don’t even know her, because then that feels like a bombardment and a pretty negative strategy that isn’t right either. Behaving more attentive suddenly one day and a bit more neutral the next will make her wonder what’s going on. But she won’t see you as a narcissistic person thinking, “This guy flattered me one day and the next he doesn’t even know me.” No, what this will provoke is that she analyzes your attitude to figure out what’s happening. The truth is your pattern is quite irregular and she doesn’t understand it, but she’ll be thinking more about you, unlike constantly flattering her and letting it become a routine that completely kills the attraction.
7. Symbolic Contact
Number six: introduce symbolic contact. Make her associate small gestures or words with you. This will work like a mental trigger and a cue so that whenever she hears it with someone else, she immediately thinks of you. You can do this by telling her a unique phrase every time you see her or making some kind of gesture that you see no one else makes. When greeting her, you could maybe touch her shoulder or do some kind of subtle caress, whatever, something no one else does and that she 100% knows is you when you arrive, even without seeing you. With this, you are causing your presence to become a sensory experience or something like that. The point is it will be very hard to erase.
8. Subtle Challenges
Number seven: pose subtle challenges. Example: when you have a bit more confidence with her, you can tell her some kind of phrase like, “You look like one of those girls who falls in love fast.” What this does is play with reverse psychology so she tries to prove to you that it’s not true, that it’s totally the opposite. And not only that, maybe she’ll even say, “Oh yeah? Well, if I fall in love fast, you’re going to be the one who falls first.” And that’s when the game begins. Using these kinds of tricks intelligently and knowing how to focus them can help you too much so that the very strategies she wants to use against you end up inverted. You’re playing with her ego and at the same time hooking her with emotions.
9. Mental Surprise
Number eight: mentally invade her with surprise. It could be an unexpected message, a phrase only you could tell her, or reminding her of something no one else noticed. When she feels that you got ahead of her or somehow read her mind before she said what she was going to say, you are making space for yourself in her mind. This relates to what I always tell you: never turn anything into a routine. Routine isn’t bad in itself, but avoid creating it from the beginning at all costs, because that gives a false sense of security that makes her lose interest. Routine will happen over time in a more formal relationship down the road. And this doesn’t mean it has to be boring either; now, everything depends on how we handle the situation, but at the beginning, you do have to be more unexpected, more surprising, more mysterious.
10. Emotional Control in Rejection
Number nine, and to close with a golden flourish: show your emotional control, especially regarding rejection or indifference. Let’s be honest, nothing guarantees us success with the person we want. We can apply a lot of strategies, but obviously multiple factors must come together to get the result we expect. However, even if this doesn’t happen, how we act about it is important. Because if you show her all this while getting to know her, and in the end she ends up rejecting you or showing you indifference when you didn’t expect it, and you lose control in front of her eyes, or you complain, recriminate her, make a huge drama out of it and so on, what do you think will happen? The only thing you’ll be showing her is that all your words were pure bluff and empty strategies, that you’re really a man lacking emotional intelligence and whose control is totally null—which would actually prove her right about why she didn’t pay attention to you in the first place. So come what may, you always have to maintain control of your person and your reactions so she sees that with her or without her, you are a man who knows how to handle himself and knows how to lose when necessary. So well, loves, I close this video here hoping this information is completely useful to you, but above all that you put it into practice. Try it out and then tell me how it went! I’ll see you.
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